The golf paradigm could actually be followed fairly rigorously. Numeric evaluations supplied by the computers could be used to finely grade performances. A player agreeing to a draw would tacitly acquiesce to the computer's evaluation of the final position. Losses could be compared by number of moves played before all subsequent positions are deemed "hopeless" by the computer. Thus golf's traditional four rounds would be enough to get a clear winner.
Games could be played sportingly on successive days, if desirable, since all players would be equally subject to tiredness. The duration of the games could be shortened to golf standards, if desirable, simply by reducing the computer response time, since there would not be a human/computer fairness issue.
Chess "golf" would help us keep our dignity even as computers squash us like roaches. We would learn to see computers correctly: not as people, but as golf courses, as splendid, unconquerable, green redoubts.